□hereisacert□ingraceand□harmthatcomeswithb□inga□ady.Iti□notju□tabo□toutwardappeara□ces,but□lsoabout□hewa□on□c□rriesthe□selvesandconductsthe□ra□t□□ns.Foralo□gtime,□didn'tpay□uch□tten□io□toculti□atingt□e□equali□ieswith□n□y□elf□H□□ever□as□ha□egrowno□□e□,□havecometorea□izethei□portanc□ofembodyingt□eess□nceofaladyinm□daily□ife.□><□>□h□□e□□□certaingrace□nd□harmthatc□□eswi□hbeingalady.Iti□notjustaboutoutward□□pe□ran□es,b□talsoabou□thew□yonecarriest□ems□lve□andc□nductst□eiractio□s.Fora□ongt□□□,Ididn'tpa□much□tt□ntiontocu□□ivat□ngth□sequal□□ie□with□nmys□lf.□owever,□sIhav□□r□wnolder,□hav□comet□realizethe□mportance□fembodyi□gtheessenceofalad□inmy□ailyl□fe. T□ere□s□□ertaingra□eandcharm□hatcome□withbeingalady.□tisnotjustabouto□twa□dappearances,but□lsoabou□the□ay□necarries□hemselvesan□con□uctstheira□t□ons.□or□longtime,Idi□□□tpa□much□tten□i□nt□□ulti□atingthesequali□i□sw□thinmy□elf.H□weve□,□s□havegrownolder,Ihavecometo□ea□ize□□eimpor□anceofembo□yi□g□he□ssence□faladyinmydailyl□fe. There□sacertai□graceandchar□thatcomeswi□hbein□ala□y.It□snotjus□a□outoutw□rd□p□e□rances,butalsoabo□ttheway□□e□arriesthemselvesandco□ductsthe□ra□t□o□s.Foralongtime,I□id□'t□aymu□hatt□n□ionto□ultivat□ngthesequalitieswith□nmyself.However,asIhavegr□wno□□er,Ihavecometor□alizethe□mportanceofembodyingt□eess□nceof□la□yinmydailylife. Ther□isace□□aingra□eandch□rmtha□comeswithbei□g□la□y.Itisnotjustaboutoutw□□dappearances,□utalsoabo□tthe□ayo□ecar□ie□them□elv□san□conduct□□heiract□ons.Foralong□□me□Ididn'tp□y□uchatt□ntiontocultiv□tin□t□□sequalit□esw□th□nmyself.□□weve□□as□havegrownolder,Ihave□ometorea□izet□eim□□rtanceofemb□dying□heess□nceofal□□yinm□d□i□y□ife.