T□erei□ac□rtaing□acea□dcha□□that□ome□withbeingalad□.Itisnotjustaboutoutwardappearances,bu□alsoaboutt□ewayonecarriesthemselvesan□conductstheiraction□□Foralongtime,Idi□n'tp□ym□chatt□ntiontocultivatingthesequalitie□□it□□nmyself.Howev□r,□□Ihavegrownolder,Ih□vecometorea□izet□eimportanceofe□□□dyingthee□senceofal□□yinmydailylife. Thereisacertaingracean□charmthatcomeswi□hbei□galady.Itisnot□ust□boutoutwardappearances,butalso□b□utth□wayonecar□□es□hems□lve□andco□ductsth□i□acti□ns.F□ralong□ime,I□□d□'t□ay□uchatten□iontocu□t□vatingtheseq□alitie□wi□hinmyself.Ho□e□er,a□I□□ve□ro□□old□r,Ihavec□□□torealizetheimp□rtanceofembo□□ing□h□e□senc□□faladyin□ydail□life. Thereisa□e□taingrac□andch□rmthatc□meswithbeingalad□.Itisnotj□stab□utoutwa□dapp□□rances,b□t□l□oaboutthe□ayonec□rriesthemselves□ndconductstheira□tions.Foral□ngtim□□I□idn'tpaymu□hatten□□ont□cultivatin□the□e□ua□□□□es□ithinmyself.H□wever,asIhavegrownolder□Ihavecometo□eali□□theim□□rtanceofembodyingtheessen□e□□aladyinmyd□□ly□ife. □hereisac□r□aingracean□charmthat□o□□swith□eingalady.Itisn□tjustaboutoutward□ppearances,buta□soab□u□t□ewayonecarriest□emsel□esandc□□d□□□st□eiractions.□o□alongtime□Ididn'tpaymuchatte□t□onto□ultiv□ting□he□eq□al□□□eswith□nm□□elf.H□w□□er,asIhavegrown□lder□Ih□vecometor□ali□et□eimpo□t□nceofembodying□hee□□en□e□faladyinmydail□life□