T□ereis□ce□t□□ngra□eandcharmthatcom□swi□hbei□ga□ady.Itisno□justab□utoutwardappearances,□ut□lsoaboutthewa□on□car□iesth□mselv□s□ndconductstheiractions.F□ralongtime,Ididn't□aymu□hat□□nti□n□ocul□ivatingthesequalitieswith□nm□self.However,asIhavegrowno□de□□I□avecom□t□reali□et□eim□orta□ceofembodying□heesse□c□ofaladyi□mydailylife. Thereisa□ertaingr□ceandcha□mthatcome□withb□in□ala□□.Itis□ot□usta□ou□outwardappearances,butals□abou□t□e□ayoneca□riesthemsel□e□andconduct□□heiract□ons.For□lo□gtim□,I□□dn'tpay□uch□ttent□□ntocultivatingthes□qualitieswi□hin□ys□□f.Howeve□,□sIhavegro□no□der,□□ave□ometorealizetheimport□□ceo□embo□yingtheessenceofalad□inmyd□ilyli□e.<□p> Thereisace□taingracea□d□harm□hat□□meswithbeinga□ady.Itisnotjus□aboutoutwardappearances,b□talsoabout□hewayo□ecarriesthemsel□esandc□n□□ctstheir□ction□.Foralong□□m□□Idid□'tpaymucha□tentiont□cultivat□ngthesequa□□□□eswi□h□nm□□el□.However,asIha□egrown□lder,Ihavecometore□li□ethe□mportanceofembo□yi□g□hee□senceofal□dyinmyd□□□ylife. Thereisace□ta□ngrac□an□cha□m□□atc□meswithbe□ngalad□.□□i□notjusta□outoutwar□ap□e□rances,□utalsoab□u□thewayon□carr□□sthemselvesandcon□uctstheiract□ons.□□ral□ng□ime□I□□dn'tpay□□cha□tentiontocultiv□tingthesequalitieswithinmy□□lf.However□□sIhav□grownold□r,Ihavecometorealizethe□mportanceof□mbodyingtheessenceo□aladyinm□dailylife.