Th□reis□c□r□ain□raceandcha□mt□atcome□wit□beingal□dy□Itisnotjustabouto□t□ardappearances,buta□□oaboutthewayo□ec□rr□esth□mselvesandconduc□stheiractions.Foral□ngtime,□didn'tpa□mucha□□ent□□nto□ulti□atin□these□ualitiesw□th□nm□se□f.However,a□Ihavegrownol□er,Ihave□□metore□l□zet□e□m□o□tanc□ofembodyingth□□ssen□e□falady□□mydailylife.□□□> Thereis□certai□graceandcharmthatcomeswithbeingalady.Itisnotjustaboutoutw□r□appearances□butals□abou□thewayo□ecarriesthe□selvesandc□nduc□stheir□ctions□Fora□ongtim□,Ididn□tp□ym□chattentio□toc□lt□□atingthesequ□liti□swit□□nmyself.However,asI□avegr□wno□der,Ih□vecometo□ealize□heimp□□tanceofembodyingth□□sse□ceofaladyinmy□ailyli□e. □hereisacerta□ngraceand□ha□mthatcom□□withbeingala□y□It□sno□□ustaboutoutw□rdappearan□□s,bu□□ls□aboutthewayonecarriesthem□□lvesandcon□uc□s□heiractio□s.Foralongt□me,Ididn'tpaymuchatten□iontocultivatin□these□ualitiesw□thinmyself□H□w□ver,asIhavegrow□olde□,Ihavecom□tore□lize□□eim□ortanceo□embodying□□□esse□ceof□ladyinm□dailyl□fe□ Thereisa□er□aingr□□eandcha□mtha□come□withbeingal□dy.□tisno□justab□utoutwa□d□pp□ar□nces,butal□oaboutthewayonecarrie□themselv□□andconductstheiractions.Foralongti□e,Idid□'tpay□uchatte□tiontoculti□at□ngt□e□equalitieswithinmyself.However,a□□□ave□ro□no□der,Ihave□o□e□or□a□□zetheimp□rt□nceofe□bod□ingtheessenceo□alady□nmyda□lylif□.