T□ereisac□rtaingracea□dc□arm□ha□come□withbein□alady.Itisnot□ust□□outo□twarda□p□aranc□s,□uta□soaboutthewayone□arriesthems□lvesandconductstheiractions.F□ralongtim□□I□idn'tpaymuchatte□tio□□ocult□□□tingt□esequalitieswi□hinm□□□□f.However□□s□havegrown□lder,Ihavecometo□ealizeth□impor□anceofembodyingtheessenc□ofalady□nmy□a□lyli□e.<□p> Thereisa□ertaing□aceandc□arm□hatcomes□ithbeingalad□.I□isnotj□staboutoutwardappea□anc□s□buta□soabout□hew□y□n□ca□ries□hemselve□an□co□d□ctst□□ir□c□□□ns.Foralongti□e□□□idn□tpaymuchattention□oc□ltivatingthese□ua□i□ieswi□hin□□self.□oweve□,□sIhavegro□□older,□havecometoreal□ze□heimportanceofemb□dying□hees□enc□ofaladyi□my□ailyli□e. Th□reisacertaingra□e□ndcharmth□t□omes□ithbein□a□ady.Itisnotjusta□outoutw□rdappearances,butalsoabo□tt□□way□necarriesthe□se□□esandconductstheira□tions.Foralongtime□Idid□'tpaymuc□att□ntiontocultivatin□□he□equalitieswith□n□y□elf.Howe□□r,asIhavegrownolder,Ih□vecome□orea□□z□t□eimportance□femb□dyingthees□□nce□faladyinmydaily□i□e. Thereisace□taing□a□□andc□a□mt□atcomeswi□□beingalady.Itisn□□just□bou□out□arda□pearances□buta□soa□outthewayon□ca□riest□emselv□□and□ondu□tstheiractio□s.F□□alongti□e,Ididn'tpaymuchattenti□n□ocul□ivatingthes□qua□iti□swi□hinmyself.□oweve□,□s□have□rownolder,Ihavec□□etoreali□etheimport□n□eofembodyingtheessenceofaladyinmyda□ly□□□□.□>□p>Thereisa□ertain□race□ndc□armth□tco□eswith□ein□ala□y.Itisnotjust□bo□toutwardappea□ances,but□ls□aboutthe□ayoneca□riesthemselves□n□co□□u□tstheiractio□s.Foralongti□e,Ididn'tp□ymuchatten□ion□ocultivatingthesequ□□iti□swi□h□nmysel□.□ow□ver,asIha□e□□□w□older,□havec□metore□l□z□theim□ort□nceof□□□o□yingthees□en□eofaladyinmydailyli□e.