Thereisac□rtai□grac□a□dc□armthatcomeswithbeingala□□.□tisnot□usta□o□toutwa□□appearan□es□□utalso□□outt□e□ay□ne□ar□iest□emselve□andc□nductstheiract□ons.Foralongti□□,Ididn't□aymuchat□enti□ntocultivatingt□es□qu□liti□□wi□hinmysel□.How□□er,□sIhavegrow□older□Ihave□ometoreal□zeth□importa□ceofembody□□□thee□s□n□eofa□adyinmydail□li□e. Th□reisacerta□ngr□c□andcha□mthat□o□□swithbeing□lady.□□□□no□j□staboutoutwa□dap□eara□□es,but□□□o□b□utt□e□ayonec□□rie□the□□□lvesand□onducts□□e□□actions.Foralo□gt□□e,Ididn□tpa□muchattentiontocultivat□ngthesequalitieswith□nmy□elf.However□asIhaveg□ow□ol□er,Ihav□com□t□realiz□theimpo□tance□fembodyingthee□□ence□falad□inmyd□ilylife□□> Th□reisacerta□ngraceandcharmtha□co□esw□thbein□alady.Itisnotju□taboutoutwardappearances,□u□□lsoaboutthewayonecarriesthemselvesa□dconductstheiractions.For□longt□me,Id□□n't□aymuchatt□ntiontocultiv□t□ngt□ese□ualitiesw□thinmysel□.Ho□e□e□,asI□ave□rownolder,Ihavecomet□□ealizetheim□□□t□nceo□embo□yingt□ees□enceofala□y□nm□dailylife. The□ei□acert□i□g□acea□dcharmthat□om□swith□eingalady.Itisnot□ustaboutoutward□ppearance□,butalsoabout□heway□necarriesth□mselvesandconductstheiractions.F□ralongtime,Ididn't□□ym□c□atten□io□tocultiva□ingthesequalitieswithinm□sel□□Howe□er,asIhave□□□□□older□Ihav□comet□r□□□izethe□□p□rtanceofemb□□yingtheesse□□eofala□yinmydailylife.□□